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#303787 - Fri Feb 13 2009 06:39 PM Happy families (dad 13, mum 14)
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BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: I think it’s a lot.

Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.

He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.

The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: I thought it would be good to have a baby.

I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me 10 pounds.



Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react. I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.

Alfie’s dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.


Oh dear.

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#303809 - Fri Feb 13 2009 08:19 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Hokkaidough]
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legally speaking, theyre both paedophiles - baby up for adoption and throw em both in jail!! lol

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#303812 - Fri Feb 13 2009 08:39 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: gareth_oau]
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um how? Neither of them are adults - the legal definition being of an adult has a sexual preference for prepubescent children. Maybe in Oz its different.
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#303824 - Sat Feb 14 2009 07:02 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: RobBright]
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He looks 7.
She looks 23.
Bizarre.

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#303835 - Sat Feb 14 2009 07:45 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: IIIII]
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what can you say? Poor baby, I'd expect a short life of neglect and abuse. But hope not.

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#303852 - Sat Feb 14 2009 09:25 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: gareth_oau]
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Originally Posted By: gareth_oau
legally speaking, theyre both paedophiles - baby up for adoption and throw em both in jail!! lol


yeah not actually gareth. In fact it would be if the ages were reversed, he was 15 and she 13...at least in Britain anyway, but there would only be a prosecution if the legal guardians of the girl wanted to press charges. As it is now I'm pretty sure there is no legal culpability
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#303864 - Sat Feb 14 2009 10:30 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Tubby Beaver]
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Needless to say they're British!
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#303865 - Sat Feb 14 2009 11:12 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Mr Wiggles]
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Here he is. He sure seems mature!



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#303866 - Sat Feb 14 2009 12:08 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: veronica]
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veryshocked

Are we sure this isn't made up?
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#303878 - Sat Feb 14 2009 01:56 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: rach]
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"What's financially?"

OMGG

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#303879 - Sat Feb 14 2009 01:58 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: charlotte]
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Alfie's 45-year-old father Dennis, who reportedly has eight other children, said his son wanted to be a devoted and responsible dad, and had wanted to be the first to hold his daughter. "He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his PlayStation. But he has been at the hospital every day," he said.


Only 8 others?
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#303935 - Sat Feb 14 2009 08:41 PM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Tubby Beaver]
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Originally Posted By: Tubby Beaver
Originally Posted By: gareth_oau
legally speaking, theyre both paedophiles - baby up for adoption and throw em both in jail!! lol


yeah not actually gareth. In fact it would be if the ages were reversed, he was 15 and she 13...at least in Britain anyway, but there would only be a prosecution if the legal guardians of the girl wanted to press charges. As it is now I'm pretty sure there is no legal culpability


There was an unrelated article in the local aussie press recently that a boy of 15 who'd had consentual sex with his 15 yr old girlfiend had been placed on the sex offenders register

and sometimes we wonder why the officials arent focussing on real criminals? (not like there arent many unsolved crimes out there!!!)

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#303967 - Sun Feb 15 2009 07:13 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: gareth_oau]
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Are they sure she hasn't been playing away?
He doesn't look capable.
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#304008 - Mon Feb 16 2009 07:27 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Mr Wiggles]
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"Yesterday at least two other youths claimed they were the father, forcing Alfie, now 13, to say he would take a DNA test to prove his paternity.
....

But trainee chef Richard Goodsell, 16, who lives near Chantelle in Eastbourne, claimed he had sex at least three times with Chantelle around the time she became pregnant, adding: 'I know I could be the father.
'Everyone thinks I am. My friends all tell me that baby has my eyes - even my mum thinks so.'
A second youth, 14-year-old Tyler Barker, also thinks he could be Maisie's father.
'I slept with Chantelle about nine months ago and I'm really worried I could be the father,' he said.
'I hope it's not me. All my mates have been teasing me about it but this isn't funny, it's serious.'


Turning into a right little drama this one.
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#304011 - Mon Feb 16 2009 08:09 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: rach]
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I'm Sparticus.... lol

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#304015 - Mon Feb 16 2009 09:19 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: gareth_oau]
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Originally Posted By: gareth_oau
I'm Sparticus.... lol


I lol'ed... while at work >_<

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#304025 - Mon Feb 16 2009 11:19 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Ryoma]
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I don't get it? confused
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#304026 - Mon Feb 16 2009 11:19 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: Ryoma]
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I was going to say "i'm Brian" but wasnt sure if people would get it (from "Life of Brian") lol

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#304027 - Mon Feb 16 2009 11:19 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: gareth_oau]
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Don't get that either!!!
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#304037 - Mon Feb 16 2009 11:43 AM Re: Happy families (dad 13, mum 14) [Re: klingon]
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I'm Brian, and my wife is Brian too.

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